Earlier this month The Wife and I celebrated our wedding anniversary. We've been married for six years. In some ways it seems like we've only been married for about a year and a half. (Admittedly, I wasn't the one who endured two long pregnancies, so I'm sure the time went faster for me.) And, in some ways it seems like we've been married for 20 years. (It certainly feels like I've changed 20 years worth of diapers!)
A lot has changed in the six years that we have been married. Six years ago no one had ever heard of Facebook, Barack Obama was a first term senator, Brett Favre was still playing for the Packers (and had only threatened retirement four times), and phones weren't "smart," but they did flip open like a communicator from Star Trek (which was AWESOME!!!)
The Wife and I celebrate things differently than we did when we were first married. For our six month anniversary, we got a room at the same bed and breakfast we stayed at on our honeymoon. For our six year anniversary, we took the kids out for pizza.
Actually, it was better than it sounds. We went to a place called "Planet Play." They had an all-you-can-eat pizza/dessert buffet, plus little rides and games for the kids, and games for the adults, too. (Basically, it was like Chuck E. Cheese on steroids.) (Or should I say it was the "Lance Armstrong-ed" version of Chuck E. Cheese?) We had a ball.
And, truth be told, our anniversary celebration really began earlier in the day. The Wife made me bacon for breakfast! Bacon!!! (It was a special treat.) That's not to say we never have bacon. We just don't have it very often. (The Wife told me she'd make me bacon on a more regular basis, but she actually wants me to be around for our several more anniversaries.)
And then, with the leftover bacon, we.... (Just kidding! There is no such thing as "leftover bacon." Leftover bacon belongs to the realm of make believe and fantasy, like unicorns, bigfoot, and honest politicians.)
To reciprocate for the bacon she made me, I made The Wife some french toast. (French toast is one of the few things that I'm pretty good at making. My french toast is well-regarded by people from at least two different states and several counties.) The Wife really likes my french toast. Of course, I've had her french toast, and it is easily as good as mine, if not better. (I think the reason she likes my french toast best is because she didn't have to make it.)
So, all told, I had a really good day. I got bacon, french toast, all the pizza I could eat, all the soda pop I could drink, and I got to have fun with The Wife and the kids. (Buzz discovered air hockey, Roni had fun riding the bouncy snail, and I "let" The Wife beat me at pop-a-shot basketball.) (For clarification, so I don't get myself in more trouble, the quotation marks around the "let" are there for sarcastic purposes. She beat me fair and square.)
It wasn't the traditional anniversary celebration. After it was over, I remembered that each anniversary is supposed to have a theme or a gift associated with it. (You know, like the 25th anniversary is the "silver" anniversary, and the 50th is the "golden" anniversary.) So, I looked it up on the interwebs and found out that the sixth anniversary is supposed to be the "iron" anniversary.
The "iron" anniversary? I'm not sure what that even means. Am I supposed to get her an iron for our anniversary? (I already got her one for Christmas a few years back.) (She was delighted.) Maybe an iron handrail for the front steps? I could give her my entire collection of Iron Man comic books. Or, better yet (from The Wife's perspective) I could sell all of my Iron Man comic books, clearing up room in the "comic book closet" for more of her scrapbooking stuff. I just don't know what I'm supposed to do for an "iron" anniversary.
All of these different anniversary "gifts" seem pretty weird to me. According to Wikipedia (which is NEVER wrong) only the "big" anniversaries had gifts associated with them until 1937, when the American National Retail Jewelers Association (not to be confused with the National American Association of Retail Jewelers) made up a list for the rest of the anniversaries. The list goes like this:
This list seems rather silly to me. First off, I'm wondering how tin managed to snag such a good anniversary. You'd think the 10th anniversary would get something a bit more prestigious. I mean, really? Tin? (Nothing says "romance" like tin!) And some of the other things that made the list are a bit iffy, too. Pottery? Lace? Linen? I'll bet aluminum, ceramics, and macrame are feeling really left out.
Personally, there aren't many things on this list that I care much about. I think we should rebel. Let's forget what the American National Retail Jewelers Association (not to be confused with the Association of National Retail Jewelers of America) tried to shove down our throats. I think we should make our own list. I'm thinking food items would make a better list. (After all, wouldn't you rather have a baked potato than some ivory?) So, here we go:
1st: Ice cream
8th: Potato Chips
14th: Baked Potatoes
50th: Steak and Lobster
Now isn't that a much better list? There's so much more to like here. (I'm really looking forward to next year's churros!)
So, to conclude, I'd like to thank The Wife for six wonderful years! (And the best Bacon Anniversary ever!!!)